Mark Steven Joyce, cicm
Novice in the Philippines
Storytelling during the Novitiate Annual Retreat
From being in a room with Fidel Castro to the real joy of his missionary experience doing community development and human development, Fr. Alejandro “Alex” A. Ulpindo, CICM, made storytelling the theme of our retreat. The story began with all of us novices arriving at Home Sweet Home after spending two weeks at various CICM schools. In the cool Baguio weather, we were animated and excited to see one another and share our stories from our school immersion. Yet, through the examples and guidance of Father Alex, we broadened the horizon of the stories we told, which made the retreat much more than just a reflection on our two-week exposure. During our annual retreat, Father Alex provided a grounding experience for our batch through which we learned more about ourselves and each other, found rest and recharge after a two-week exposure, and found inspiration in a CICM expression of the missionary experience.
As part of our novitiate program, we have told “our stories” in many different formats. Usually, “our story” means our vocation story or the narratives on why we decided to join CICM. Yet, on this retreat, I heard my brother novices tell their stories in new ways. On the first day, Father Alex told us he preferred teaching through storytelling instead of lecturing. The format was that he would spend an hour with us in the morning telling stories, after which we would receive reflection questions. We were told to listen to each other and tell stories in the afternoon. I came to the afternoon session with a story I thought I could tell based on my reflection, only to feel prompted to tell a different story based on the stories I heard. One thread in several stories was “How do we define ourselves.” Through these stories, I realized we have all gotten to know ourselves better through our novitiate, which has allowed us to tell our stories in new ways.
Early in the retreat, I asked Father Alex what he felt about us going for runs or walks during the retreat. He encouraged it by saying, “Happy mind, healthy body, that is the point of a retreat.” I think this mentality helped all of us make the most out of our time during the retreat. After two weeks in the schools, we could rest, exercise, and reflect on our half-year journey with CICM. For some congregations, the idea that novices can go for runs while on retreat may sound unacceptable. However, I think it was a perfect addition for a missionary congregation with an ad gentes priority. After hearing Father Alex tell stories emphasizing the importance of being close to the people, we ran around a soccer field in Burnham Park. There, we saw the young people of Baguio congregate, play sports, laugh, and practice the traditional dances of the Igorot people. To me, not only did these runs help me feel mentally balanced, but they also helped me reflect on an ad gentes-oriented missionary life.
During our retreat, Father Alex told a range of missionary stories that were shocking, inspiring, and informative. One theme that encompassed many of his stories was the reality of living with and serving the poor. These stories opened our eyes to what could be ahead of us. One exercise that stood out to me was reading a letter our founder, Theophile Verbist, wrote to the first CICM novices. I liked the fact that Father Verbist wrote the letter from his mission in China. Even though the letter was written over 150 years ago, the lessons and teachings are still relevant to me as a CICM novice today. Especially when he said, “The missionary has only the spirit of faith to support and protect him.” What stood out to me in the letter and the stories Father Alex told us was the hardship involved in a missionary vocation serving the poor.
These tales of CICM experiences in mission helped us reflect on what we are working on in our life journeys with CICM. Our batch truly appreciates the hospitality we received from the Home Sweet Home community. At close to the halfway mark of our novitiate year, it was nice to experience how far we have all come in self-knowledge and self-understanding. It was also important and helpful to have time to find a grounding experience and recharge for what lies ahead of us. Most importantly, though, the retreat helped us focus on some key themes of missionary life that can inspire us in our vocational journey. The retreat helped us become aware of the “spirit of faith” needed to succeed in a mission environment.
