Robert Suykens (1939-2024)
Born in Puurs on August 11, 1939.
First vows on September 8, 1960.
Ordained priest on August 1, 1965
Missionary in Indonesia and Belgium
Died in Torhout, on August 29, 2024,
at the age of 85
Rob's life as a missionary in Indonesia spanned two islands: he spent 29 years in Sulawesi before moving to the capital, Jakarta. In his early years, Rob faced significant challenges in Messawa, which is located deep in the mountains and known for its animistic faith, featuring unique wedding and death celebrations. Travel was primarily by foot or horseback. On the remote island of Muna, where exceptional droughts led to severe poverty from poor harvests, he had profound experiences. He aimed to aid in the development of that region. It wasn't just what he did, but how he did it, that left a lasting impression. One confrere described him: "A man, a priest, a missionary with a heart for people—very humble, mild, and full of understanding, radiating gentle kindness."
In addition to his parish work at various locations, Rob also helped train young CICM candidates in Makassar. With each new appointment, Rob always responded with a heartfelt "yes." This was not a mere obligatory acknowledgment but a genuine commitment to serving God and others. He wrote, "When I suffered a coronary thrombosis in 2000, I increasingly realized that God had called me to be available as a priest. Like a servant who seeks to be content with what he has, wherever my superior sends me: a servant who may not have many words but strives to connect his actions to his words." He viewed this not as empty rhetoric, modestly adding, "I believe I have succeeded to some extent and can reflect on a fruitful life."
Rob's spirit of availability stayed strong during his 47 years in Indonesia. Despite his gradual illness, he continued serving God with remarkable patience. "He learned obedience through suffering," as stated in the letter to the Hebrews about Jesus. That obedience became a source of strength for him. He remained true to himself as a missionary even during his most challenging days: his kindness and gratitude were infectious, bringing joy to those who cared for him and helped him navigate his illness.
Thérèse of Lisieux, who also faced significant suffering in her convent, captured her missionary vocation in simple words: "My vocation is love." In this love, she embraced the whole world. Similarly, Rob attracted many people to him. He was a quiet witness to deep faith and implicit trust in God, serving humbly. Until his final days, Rob was surrounded by affection from his family, staff, confreres, and many friends who came to support him. This is how Rob left us—grateful and ready to say "yes" one last time to God, his ultimate Superior.
- Fernand Degroote §
